Zach Moss
6 February 2015
Dying Matters Awareness Week 2015
Dying Matters Awareness Week: My Top 5 Events
Last week I took the train from Lancaster to London to attend the Dying Matters Week 2015 Launch in London.
Last year, 530 events happened across England and Wales. Those involved found that it was really successful in raising the profile of end of life issues and getting people talking, so naturally there was real buzz about this year’s Awareness Week.
The 2015 Launch was opened by Gary Rycroft who runs a lot of theatre and arts events, as well as many of the talks that happened in Lancaster last year – I wondered how I managed to miss it!
Poppy Mardall from Poppy’s Funerals, talked about the importance of communicating our wishes to our families before ‘the event’, and of the courage needed to face up to the subject of death. She added her concern that ‘if we don’t start talking about our future plans, we will be setting our families up to be at war.’ Poppy’s message was for us all to get out there and talk as soon as we can and not to leave it until there is a crisis. She said that when those around us are clear about our wishes, then funerals have the potential to be positive healing experiences that alter our view of death forever.
The launch was a relentless stream of inspiring talks and ideas. Throughout the day, I was considering how the 7 My Life My Decision projects might find a unique creative place in this year’s activities across the country.
My top 5 Events from 2014 were
- Pop-Up Shop. James Norris from DeadSocial explained how last an year unused shop space became a pop-up shop (also known as flash retailing) over for a few days to host Dying Matters events and exhibitions. The shop became a local focal point for the week.
- Death Cafes. Jon Underwood described the Death Café movement and the framework of the events. This isn’t for everyone but those who do attend find it liberating to discuss their views on death without judgement. Jon explained the significance of having cake: we may talk about dying and we feed the body to celebrate living.
- Death Coffee Time in NHS offices across the country where staff discussed what is important to them.
- An Ask-the-Undertaker drop in
- A Graffiti wall: Before I die I would like to … where people can post up the things that are important to them.
- Partner with other like-minded organisations
- Be creative
- Engage with your audience
- Scream and shout about your events before, during and after
- Have fun!